About Friendster and Testimonials

This is what got me so riled up today.

Compare his testimonials for me and for her. Notice the date discrepency. Goes to show that he's been cheating on me way WAY WAY before I knew it. And notice that the 2nd testimonial for me, just 1 yr after the 1st, sound so 'friend-like'. No mention of benbao or whatever endearment. While he called ah Jo his soulmate and even made plans with her to go on a holiday. No wonder he turned down my suggestion to travel to Thailand this yr end. SIGH!!!!

10/17/2003:
Poor baobao let me add to your testimonial wahahaha.... ok i shall be objective here: Claire is one whole bundle of infectious fun, lame jokes, and corny anecdotes! Never failed to make your day...but be warned: piss her off n u r dead meat. but overall, a nice gal who is very talented. violin,piano,drama,sing,dance, this gal does it all. Funkamania 2004 go go go!

10/22/2004
Finally got round to writing this testi...thanks for being so patient n understanding... Always there for me and able to bear my sometimes irritating behaviour. Love your smile, love the way u shake yr bonbon, love it when u play your violin(though very long neva see liao)!!Work hard okie? .u will go far...im sure u will have a great time in MTV....keep smiling and shining!

For JO:

10/11/2004:
my dear sweet ah jo, its been some time since knowing u, i have got this to say: You rock! jo is such a sweet n understanding soulmate....we never run out of things to talk. thanks for yr trust in me, n im reallly glad i get to support n help u in everyway tat i cud. n its been so fun being together with u. work hard, play hard, n remember our plan for the trip yeah? ^_^ *muakz*

Daryl, 09/18/2004:
Ah jo is a bubbly, chatty gal full of aspirations and infectious laughter!;) She has great passion n determination for success, yet remains a down-to-earth romantic who believes in true love and the fact that life is all about relationships. Thanks for being a great fren and all the best for yr financial career.

The picture is crystal clear to me today. He obviously values her tonnes more than me. Messaged me this today: "I love jo. I fought hard for her. Please understand."

I can understand that.

But what I can't understand is how love can come and go so fast.

Fool I was.